RELINQUISH CONTROL stop trying to do God’s job ( and stop trying to control people like pawns in a game). EXPLORE YOU (most of us don’t even know what we like or dislike; what makes us tick because too often, our identity is just an extension of someone else’s) when you know you, you will realize [...]

More women are working in the workplace than ever before (working just as hard as men and making 60 % of what they make); There are more female headed households than ever before: More women are taking care of parents- Some older women are raising grandchildren and great grandchildren…women are juggling raising children, family, career, [...]

I receive so many letters from women who are looking for someone with whom to share their lives. Some are eager, others are longing and some are just downright desperate. I feel for my single sisters and yearn for them to find “the one”. However, my yearning is often interrupted by my concern. I am [...]

During a recent conversation with some friends, I realized the stigma “saved” men carry. My friends were discouraging someone else from dating a man she had met in church. Convinced he was like “all the others”, they told her to end it before it ever started. Many women have been hurt by men who were [...]

I recently heard Bishop T.D. Jakes say, “I’ve never seen so many tired young people in my life.20.30, and can hardly get out of bed.”  His statement is sad, but true, at least from my personal experience.  I’ve met young men and women who are weary when they go to bed and exhausted when they [...]

We’ve all made it through another year and lived to see a new one! Now, let’s not take the gift of time for granted by dragging all of the baggage from 2005 into 2006. Let’s take advantage of a new beginning! Let’s start fresh. For it is no coincidence or luck of the draw that [...]